By Tom Volkar
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Do you know how to clearly see the best career change for you? Clarity is clearness or lucidity as to perception or understanding. It is freedom from indistinctness or ambiguity.
Do you more often look for clarity or create it?
I've been pondering the creation of clarity. Most folks look for clarity like it's something to be found. Discovering clarity happens but not as often as you'd think.
It's far easier to decide to create clarity. Clarity is best created with openness, calmness and a strong determination.
A comprehensive process works best especially in matters of career change clarity. When there are many factors to consider that fog our clarity we must work a process that cuts through fog like a torch of sunshine. Clarity is best created through a process of questioning, dialogue, decision and action. Every progressive step leans toward clarity and further away from confusion or complexity.
The creation of career clarity comes directly out of deciding what you want. Quit talking about and thinking about what you don't want. That's putting your energy in the wrong direction.
After you've decided what you want then you must bring in deeper levels of truth about where you are and who you are. If you really want to see your best career change clearly then you must decide to tell the whole truth to yourself about yourself. That's truth as you see it without regard for the opinion of others.
Yes to create clarity you must take a stand for your truth and that truth is likely to be unpopular. But without truth as only you know it, deep within, you're just spinning you wheels. Here's the key. Be especially aware as a truth-teller just before and during your periods of important decision making.
When we make a decision and then decide to make up some justification, explanation or fabrication after the fact, we don't get the benefit of endorsing own authentic choices. Here's a powerful opportunity to practice your truth telling. Decide to tell the truth when you decline every invitation be it business or social. Just saying no thank you is often enough. But just in case the inviter asks be ready and willing to share your truth even if you know that it will not be welcome.
It will be one of the cleanest and most liberating practices of your life. What someone doesn't want to hear can be delivered respectfully and gracefully. But a sincere, blunt and clumsy truth is far better than any eloquently crafted lie.
"Life is given, and not one other human being on the planet was given to live the life you've been given to live. The given self lets you quit trying to live another life, which is what the quest for the ideal life is, and lets you begin to live your own." Mari Perron
I've found that my given, most authentic self can't get clear in the presence of white lies. I've found that in order for my given self to flourish in resolute clarity, I must first take a stand for what I want even when it disappoints another.
For true freedom is found in the acceptance of self and in the glory of expressing as no one else can. That's how you'll find your clarity. You'll find it after the white light of truth cuts through your fog.
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